On Friday evening, February 20th, I received the following message
“Hi Dennis! I just saw a story about Ring Finders of Maine and am SO EXCITED that you may be able to help me! I live in
Biddeford Pool. I was xc skiing on the golf course here Jan 22 before the big storm came. I took off my rings and thought I put them in a coat pocket, but alas, I think I put them in a zipper area that was really an underarm opening in my ski shell.
I did a quick look the day after and had a friend help look on that Saturday. It was brutally cold and windy, the snow was on its way!
I have Apple Watch mapping and know two areas I stopped. Just can’t remember exactly where I took my rings off. They can’t be spread all over the course, I was on a short course over lunch.
I was going to wait until spring to try to find them—my gold, emerald and diamond ring and my mother’s 2 small, gold wedding bands. With snow coming again, tonight it seems prudent to keep waiting. Please let me know your availability and thoughts. Thank You!
Desirée S*******”
I then replied,
“Hi Desiree, I am so sorry to hear this. I can certainly help you try and recover the rings. Thankfully, The ground is frozen and the rings should be above the surface.
So a few questions and observations,
1) We can certainly search the two areas where you had stopped and can do that, sooner, rather than later, as long as the snow isn’t too deep. If the snow is to deep, I can certainly check the two areas you stopped at and see what happens. Otherwise, we will need to wait until the snow recedes some.
2) With your Apple Watch mapping, do you know or would you be able to show us the rest of the route you took?
3) You say you don’t remember the exact spot you took your rings off. Could you have taken them off, before you started skiing, like in the vehicle?
4) At what point in time did you realize the rings were missing? While you were still at the course or later? Just wondering if the rings could have made their way to another area.”
“Thank you for the quick reply, Dennis!
Some answers:
1) Yes, I have peace of mind that I have two spots I know of for sure. One is by a road though, hoping the snow plow hasn’t pushed them down the road. We’re getting snow tonight and now they are talking more on Monday. I haven’t been to the golf course to see what the depth of snow is lately. I did see some bare grass, but don’t have good sight from the road to one of my stops along the woods.
2) YES! I have the whole route documented!
3) No, I took them off on the golf course. I had taken my jacket and gloves off at different points, as it was warm. I know where my jacket came off. I just don’t know which of the 2 other spots I took my rings off because my pole was hurting my hand from the rings rubbing. I did check my car just in case! And like a crazy person I kept opening every pocket of my jacket expecting a different result!
4) Sadly, I didn’t realize they were gone for almost 24 hrs. I lost them Thursday at lunch, Friday at lunch I figured it out and went to the golf course. It’s was terribly windy, my tracks were getting blown over with snow. I tried to dig at the road, with no luck.
Went back Sat., a friend had a cheap metal detector but we never got it to work. I then walked to spot #2 and just kicked the snow on the track path hoping to see something. It was a windchill day so wasn’t out long. I haven’t been back.
I’m retiring from work next Friday, so with the new snow coming and it probably being a wild week at work, March is probably better to start this adventure. I have confidence they are just sleeping in the snow, they are safe and just waiting for Spring!! I told my friends, “At least they aren’t in the ocean!!!”
And with that, began a slew of text messages back and forth with Desiree. The three rings that had been lost were two very small Gold Bands, that had belonged to her deceased mother. A Gold, Emerald and Diamond Ring that Desiree had designed and made in Indiana, over 30 years earlier, around the time her son had been born. A one of a kind ring! All three rings held extreme sentimental value, with all the memories that came with them. Unfortunately, the rings had been lost a month earlier, on January 22nd and with the snow already on the ground, the day they were lost, more snow hd fallen, in the last month, including a storm that dropped 18 inches, on Biddeford Pool. Desiree and I agreed that I would search the very large area she had cross country skied, once the snow was more manageable or gone all together. Desiree had already been in contact with the Country Club and they had granted me permission to search, on their property. Now, it was just a waiting game.
Finally, on March 10th, Gary Hill met Desiree at St. Martin’s Church, adjacent to the golf course. Desiree had crossed St. Martin’s Road on both her way out and on her way back, on her cross country ski course, 6 weeks earlier. We started there because, at this point , Desiree had fallen, crossing the road and she knowns she still had all three rings on, at that point. There were only two other areas, after falling, that Desiree had stopped at, that day. The first area was approximately a 1/3 of a mile, from where she had fallen. She had stopped because she was getting hot. She had removed her jacket and tied it around her waist. Before tying the jacket around her waist, Desiree had also removed her gloves and rings. She placed her rings, in her jacket pocket and proceeded on with her skiing. It wasn’t until days later that Desiree realized the pocket wasn’t a pocket at all, that she had placed the rings in. It was a zippered arm pit vent and THERE WAS A HOLE IN THE VENT. OH NO!!! After another 1/3 to 1/2 mile, Desiree stopped again, to take a few photos, including a selfie at a flag on one of the golf courses, greens. Her phone was also in her pocket, but a different jacket pocket. After a slight tussle, getting the phone out of her pocket, she took the photos were taken and she finished her trip, back at the Country Club’s parking area. There were no more stops or falls just a slight difficult time, getting up and over the snow back, at St. Martin’s Road. Like Desiree, Gary and I were most interested in the two areas, where she had stopped. The area the rings were taken off and the area the photos had been taken. Gary and I would perform a “snowplow” search, as we headed to the first area, where the rings had been taken off. Nothing found. Once at the first area of interest, we performed a very slow methodical grid search of that entire area. Once again, no ring. While Gary and I searched, Desiree would walk ahead of us, on the course she had taken, that day. She was visually searching the areas that did not have any snow. We all then started heading to the flag pole, where the photos had been taken. Desiree led Gary and I along her route as she continued her visual search and we continued our snowplow grid search. We arrived at the green and Desiree said she had stopped to take the photos at this location as Gary and I peppered her with questions, like “Where were you standing, when you took the phone, out of your pocket?” Where had you gone and stood, when taking the photo?” Once we received the answers to those and other questions, we started searching the entire area around the green. Gary was just to the north of the flag and I took the south side. There was still a lot of snow around this green, some areas deep enough that I wasn’t sure our detectors would be able to penetrate the deeper areas of snow, to find these very small rings. After just a few minutes of searching, I received the tone I had been hoping for. A nice low tone loud and very repeatable. Because of the snow, I couldn’t see the target, I swept the child over the snow, to remove some of it, when I caught a glimpse of a very small area of a GOLD RING and I could see a GREEN STONE, an EMERALD. I was just three or so feet from the flag. I looked over at Desiree, with a sly smile and said, “I got one”. She replied “Are you serious” and I said, “Yup, the emerald one,” Desiree hurried right over and I pointed to the ring, under the snow and I let her remove the ring, as I took a video of her. As Desiree pick the ring up she said, “This is my emerald ring, oh my gosh.”. We were all smiling and some of the weight had been lifted, from everyone’s shoulders. But, There were still two very small gold bands to find and they would be the most difficult. It was decided to search the area around the green very throughly but there was still a lot of snow. Gary and I were unable to locate the rings in the area of snow so we followed Desiree, along the route she had taken, back towards St. Martins Road and the church. We ended the search without finding the two gold bands and we all agreed that more snow would need to melt, before we tried again, in a few days. There were a couple of 50 degree days, in the forecast and a lot of the remaining snow would vanish.
While waiting for he snow to melt, I was looking at the map of, Desiree’s Apple Watch GPS tracking her route. I noticed a few areas that I thought we hadn’t searched. During the search, we may have zigged,, when we should have zagged. In my mind, we didn’t go far enough south of the green, and then a right, back towards the fairway, liked by three trees, on the south side of the fairway. The fairway still had quite a bit of snow and Desiree just couldn’t remember how far out in the fairway, shed had been. Desiree also thought the area where she had taken her rings off needed to be searched again. She was thinking hard about her route and had a feeling, she may have been down, in the rough, more than she thought. So on Friday the 13th, we met again and started the search once again. We decided to search the entire area of the green once again and after coming up empty, we went to plan B. Desiree would take Gary across the golf course and start searching the rough, where the rings were taken off. Gary would then follow Desiree along the route, towards the green. I would start at the green and work the route, backwards, towards Gary and Desiree. An hour or so later we caught up to each other and still the two gold bands hadn’t been found. We then decided that we would go back to the green and follow her route, down the fairway, across the road to where she parked, that day. We would shift slightly on the fairway, because Desiree just wasn’t sure how close to the trees she was. Unfortunately, After another 2 1/2 hours or so, the two gold bands we still missing. With very heavy rain scheduled for Monday March 16, we decided to search again on Wednesday March 18th. The very heavy rain would get rid of the rest of the remaining snow and we needed a new game plan.
I kept thinking in my head, rightly or wrongly that the Emerald Ring was large enough and shaped differently, because of the setting the emerald and diamonds were in, that it was blocking the smaller bands, from falling out first. In my mind, once the emerald ring fell out, the two small bands would follow, but how far down the fairway, towards her parked car were they? Desiree kept mentioning to me that the trees she went by on the fairway were to her left but she just couldn’t remember how far out in the fairway. I decided that I would have Gary and I grid search, from the tree line, to the edge of one of the bunkers. We would grid the entire fairway, from the flag on the green, to the end of the tree line, a distance of approximately 200 yards. If we didn’t find the rings in the fairway, we would go back to where the rings had been taken off and expand the search deeper into the rough and fairways, until we found them. Desiree would meet us there around 9;00am but Gary and I arrived at 7:30am. Once in the fairway, we marked the fairway up so that we knew exactly where to grid search and not worry about her ski route. We knew she went through this area and we would search the entire area and not guess how close to the trees she was. Gary started on the east end of the grid, towards the green and flag. I walked down to the western end of the fairway, to the last tree and we just started swimming slowly. There were many targets, in the ground but nothing close to a small gold ring. After a little more than an hour, Gary and I were only 30 yards or so apart from each other. I yelled her to him that we were running out of real estate to search in this area and we would head to the area where the rings were taken off, as soon as we finished this area. We both headed south towards the trees, turned around back across the fairway. We were now only 20 yards apart and turned south again, towards the trees. My first step and swing produce a beautiful sounding low tone and I just knew in my heart, it was gold. As I glanced towards my coil, I noticed my VDI Screen was reading 14. Another very positive as small gold band will definitely be ringing up in that area. I put my detector down and scanned the surface when a yellow gold band had come into focus. WOW!!! Gary had already heard my detector and also knew that was a gold tone. He came over to me and as he approached me, he spotted the white gold band, with his twin optical scanners. ARE YOU KIDDING ME????? Just two or 3 feet apart, in a perfect line, Desiree’s mother’s two gold band had been found. We started high fiveing each other and doing our happy dance, all the while we were smiling, smiling and did I mention smiling.
It was now close to 9:00am and we saw Desiree and her fried Chris, walking towards us with their dogs. Gary and I had decided to surprise Desiree and had placed a pine cone, atop of each ring, hiding them. Gary pretended to still be searching, with his detector, with Desiree approaching. Once she and Chris arrived, she asked how it was going. I told her what we had searched and if the rings weren’t found, in the fairway, where does she think they would be. I was taping her the entire time and she pointed towards the rough, on the other side of the golf course, where she had taken her rings off. I then asked her if she could do me a favor and pick up the pine cones. As Desiree walks to the first pine cone, she doesn’t stop looking at me and has a slight grin, on her face. As she reaches down, she says”No way”, picks up the white gold band, breaks into a big smile and says “Oh my gosh, Oh my God, Oh my God, no way”. She then reaches down and picks up pine cone #2. The manager of the golf course arrives as she is picking up the cone and with the bright sun, everyone can see the yellow gold band sparkling in the sun. I hear everyone cheering and happiness filling the air. Desiree then gave Gary and I a big, saying things like “I love you, you guys are amazing”, before the happy tears really started flowing. Gary gave her a tissue, so she could pat her eyes, dry. After 3 different days of searching, it was good to see and hear an ego booster like that. Desiree asked if that was where we found them and it was exactly, where we found them. We never touched them, just placed pine cones on top to surprise her. The two gold band were found adjacent to a marker, in the fairway. The marker said “125”. The marker is telling the golfers that the flag/hole is 125 yards away, from the marker. So, Desiree’s Emerald ring fell out next to the flag and the two gold bands rode their way another 125 yards, down the fairway. As the happy tears were still flowing Desiree thanked us for being persistent and not giving up. Gary and I wasn’t going to give up. If we had’t found them today, we were coming back tomorrow and search another area. Thankfully the golf course hadn’t started their ground work yet and won’t start for another 10 days or so. We needed to find them otherwise they would possibly be gone forever or at the least, badly damaged by the mowers, etc..
As Gary and I were leaving, we turned around to see Desirée and Chris embracing. It had been a long and stressful 8 weeks, for Desirée. Hopefully now she will sleep a little better and I know, because she told me, she will no longer wear her extremely precious and sentimental rings, while cross country skiing.
